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Dancing Away The Stickiness

Posted by terrepruitt on February 12, 2015

More often than not in my Nia classes we have a physical focus.  A focus and an intent in an exercise class is not easy for some people.  So having a focus that is physical seems, for many, to be easier than a focus that is not.  I know I have mentioned this before because I know I have talked about focuses before.  Today, as always, I asked my class if “they had anything”.  Usually someone comes up with a physical thing . . . sore neck, tight hamstrings, aching back, tight shoulders . . . ya know, something physical.  Today someone said, “Unstuck.”  I had overheard her mention something about being “stuck” while I was getting ready to teach, and I thought that would be a great focus, but I wasn’t sure how to do that.  So I said, “Yeah, I heard you mention that, but I am not sure how to do that.”  Someone else piped in about being stuck, too.  And I laughed and commented that if I knew how to get “unstuck” I wouldn’t ever be stuck.  And the “stuck” we were talking about was a feeling of being stuck either in an emotion or a situation or just the feeling of being stuck!  So we focused on getting “unstuck”.

The person that originally mentioned feeling stuck was happy to hear that others sometimes felt that way.  That is something I learned about feelings they are like questions . . . if one person has it (the feeling or the question) there is at least one other person that does too.  There are no stupid feelings.  Now, I do believe there are no stupid feelings, but I will admit to being guilty of thinking and sometimes even saying that as a knee-jerk reaction to someone I love saying something I think of as not nice about themselves.  If one were to say, “I feel ugly.”  “I feel like a bad person.”  My automatic reaction is “that’s stupid you aren’t . . . ”  But if they FEEL that way that is not stupid.  So I am still learning to curb that reaction.  But I digress . . . back to getting unstuck.

Dance Exercise, Nia, Nia in the City of San Jose,  Nia at the San Jose Community Centers, Nia classes in the South Bay, Nia Teacher, Nia Class, San Jose Nia, Nia San Jose, Nia workout, Nia, Gentle Yoga, Group Ex City of San Jose, San Jose Group Ex classes, YMCA, Zumba, PiYoAs I said, I wasn’t sure how to dance “unstuck”.  I wasn’t sure how to make that a focus, but then I decided . . . . because I believe . . . that sometimes just thinking about it can help things move along.  So my thoughts were that if you were feeling stuck, just acknowledging it and moving with it could be enough to unstick it.  Or it could be enough to think of an idea on how to “unstick” it.  Or it could just open you up to an idea that is going to come later.  Just all types of stuff.  We agreed that dancing with the focus of getting unstuck and the intent of being open to that and whatever it meant and however we could achieve that would be our focus and intent for the class.

One person mentioned not getting “too unstuck” which gave me the opportunity to remind people that we are dancing our own interpretation.  When I suggest people move as if they are floating in water, everyone moves in their own way.  They imagine their own “floating in water”.  The same with getting “unstuck”.  One can get as “unstuck” as they feel they need to be.  The person that mentioned this left early so I didn’t get to delve into what she meant . . . because it could mean so many things.

After class, I actually felt better and a little less stuck.  “Unstuck” could relate to letting go or being loose.  It is one of those things that if you are feeling anything related and you focus on it with the intent of acknowledging it or relieving it, it can just happen.

For those that are challenged with focusing on things that are not strictly physical “unstuck” works for that because one could have a tight muscle that is “stuck”.  Or a joint that might need some loosening because it feels “stuck”.  So dancing to “unstick” is really a great focus.

I am always amazed at how my class comes up with such great things to focus on.  I am further amazed at how so often what they come up with is something I am feeling the same need for.  Getting “unstuck” is great.

Do you ever feel “stuck”?  In what way?  What do you do to get “unstuck”?

6 Responses to “Dancing Away The Stickiness”

  1. I can imagine dancing and mentally pushing these things that stick us onto the dance floor and away. It’s a beautiful image. I have no doubt everyone was a little more free after the class. Sometimes if I have an obsessive thought. I say, “I bless you and release you with love.” Oh goodness, sometimes I repeat it a MILLIONS times, but it always brings me peace. And eventually the obsessive thought goes away. I guess because I released it. 😀

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  2. I think movement is one of the best ways to get unstuck — on a physical and emotional level. In fact, I often rely on exercise, or a walk to help me figure something out.

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    • EXACTLY! Movement is a GREAT way to get “unstuck”! Yes! I think many people know that . . . . that is why yoga is so great, and (I think) people run/jog . . . etc. Movement is GREAT!

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  3. paywindow7 said

    I’m not sure this fits here, since I don’t do Nia……yet, but I feel something like that most of the time as I’m driving to the gym. I never thought of it as being “stuck” but that’s as good a name for it as any. It’s like I really don’t want to do this today and all kinds of things come to mind that I should be doing except going someplace to sweat a few bullets. However once I’m there and get into it I’m fine (there’s that “movement” thing) and glad that I decided to push through the “stickiness”.
    I gotta go I’m running out of quotation marks.
    Bob

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    • Bob – “Stuck” is whatever you think it is. So if you feel you are stuck when on the way to the gym and not really wanting to be there, then you are. For some it could be like that old saying ” stuck in a rut”? The feeling is of being stuck and not progressing. Or it could just be a feeling of uncomfortableness or whatever, but sometimes MOVEMENT can help with getting it unstuck. Yup!

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